Recently, a sad thing has happened. One of my “slaves” who was with me for years is no longer mine. He never will be again, for I banished him from my Queendom.
He claims that findom is the devils work, and that I basically ruin people and deserve to be “punished” for it. Now, this all came out only after he got caught doing something he shouldn’t have been, and another woman refused to take his money. I should also mention that I never indulged in findom with him at all. He paid a SMALL monthly fee to me, to be indulged in his fetish~ It was a mutual exchange of consensual play.
What I want to talk about though, is financial ruin vs financial control. I do not ruin my slaves financially. I never have, never will. A broke slave is completely useless to me. A ruined slave is completely useless to me. I really don’t get the fetish at all. I am not interested in financial ruin one bit. Sure I could get a good sum at once, but I prefer the slow drain. I enjoy bettering my slaves, giving them excitement about making extra money so they can tribute me. I also encourage and help them stop wasting money on useless items so they may indulge in my Goddess lifestyle more, and experience the bliss that they crave, and NEED.
If a slave ever came to me and expressed the fact that they needed to stop tribute for a while, and the reason was legit, I would understand. I wouldn’t give them a ton of attention, but I wouldn’t cast them aside, or throw them away either.
The ones I see whining about findoms are usually the ones that are too broke to afford them. Everyone has their fetish, and just because you can’t afford to indulge in yours, doesn’t mean you have to belittle the ones who do it.
Financial control is an art. Many try to do it, and fail. The ones who do it successfully, like myself and others who excel in the art of it, are a rare breed. We truly do deserve everything that we get~ A true supreme Female deserves the life of luxury that she creates.
The scorned lowly men often state ” Get a real job, you findom scumbags” My only answer to that is simply ” Why would I ever do that, when true slaves all work so hard for me, so that I never have to” ?
I create my art. I create masterpieces. I spend many many many hours doing what I do~ The only difference between what you do, and what I do, is that I choose to do what I do, and you simply have to~